Monday, April 30, 2007
SHARE A LITTLE PRAYER - UPDATE 3
When you have a little time today say a little prayer for my sister, Monalea. I told you about her in the "Saturday Reading." She was rushed to the hospital yesterday because of some heart problems she was having. They are going to do a stress-test and possibly an angio-cardiogram today in Lubbock.

The doctors tell her that her heart was damaged from a battle she had with cancer a few years ago. I'm not sure to what extent, but she could sure use a prayer or two today.

I'm heading to Lubbock to check on her today and others today. So I'll see all of you guys tomorrow.

Blessings ~
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UPDATE... (9:35 p.m.)

I saw Monalea today in Lubbock. She was tired. They had done a stress test and a few other tests on her heart. Thankfully, to this point everything has come back pretty good. Tomorrow they will do an angiogram where they use dye to look around. They did tell her that her heart was functioning at 60% which is much better than they thought.

Her biggest concern today when I was there was her "Top 10 Tuesday" post she'd written last week and was wanting to post tomorrow. I told her she could post it on Thursday and call it "Top 10 Tuesday on Thursday."

Thanks SO much for you prayers today. She felt them!
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UPDATE: May 1st - 8:00 p.m.

A quick update on Monalea. She's doing better today. They've run every test on her imaginable and haven't come up with anything real bad. We praise God for that. They're going to put her on a heart monitor tonight and tomorrow and make her get up and walk around to see if they can get her heart to act up again. If all goes well she might get to go home on Thursday.

Thankfully, to this point everything has been very good. She asked me tonight to tell each of you thank you for the prayers. I thank you too. :)
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UPDATE: May 2nd - 1:00 p.m.

Monalea got to get out of the hospital this morning. I think she feels like a Guinea pig for doctor's testing. All the test came back as good as can be expected. The doctors told her that the spot on her heart was from the radiation she endured throughout her cancer treatments. That the 60% function of her heart was just something she'd have to learn to live with. I'm sure she'll give us a full update on her blog later today or tomorrow.

Again, thanks for the prayers.

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Saturday, April 28, 2007
SATURDAY READING: SHE GOT A SENSE OF HUMOR
In this week's "Saturday Reading" let me tell you about a new blogger that will make you laugh, smile, cry and think (hopefully not all at the same time). Monalea has been blogging about two weeks now, and she describes herself this way:

"I am a Christian wife, mother of 4 and grandmother. I have been a stay-at-home 'mom' for 27 years. I am a survivor of life and the entire trauma it has to offer. Come, join me as we look and see that survival is possible through wit, laughter and the LORD!"

I think the thing that makes her a good blogger is her sense of humor, her wisdom and her life experiences. Stop by her blog and she will put a little light in your day. When you do, you will want to make her blog a regular stop on your blogging rounds.

PS - I will admit that Monalea is my sister so I'm a little partial. But also understand, when she writes about me ... don't believe everything she tells you! :)

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Friday, April 27, 2007
REACHING OUT TO THE TULIA TORNADO VICTIMS
A letter to the editor in the local Childress newspaper asking for community of Childress to help give certain items for the Tulia tornado victims:
No Charge

Everyone in town pitching in to buy supplies for the tornado victim:
A few dollars from each person

A tank of gas from Childress to Tulia to deliver a trailer full of collected items:
$60.00

Filling a big trailer full of supplies and being a part of a loving community that shows its giving spirit:
Priceless!

Lea and I are headed over to Tulia today to take a ton of supplies to the Tulia tornado victims. Monday when I called Tulia and asked what they needed, they gave me a list of 10 items they could really use. I sent out an email all over the community and put a note in the local paper and "presto" tons of things donated. Plus, close to $1500 to the Tulia Relief Fund that we'll deliver to the Tulia community.

Thank you Childress community for your giving spirit and your compassion.

(Mrs. Jenschke's 3rd grade elementary school class came over bringing supplies and helped me load the trailer.)

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HOW TO DOWNLOAD A SERMON
For those with dial-up, see if this works. Click on the link to go to the sermon. Find the sermon you want. By the "play" button you'll see the three words: Send To Friends, Download, Permalink. "Right" click with your mouse button on the word "Download" and then click "Save As." It will save it will download and save to your computer (make sure you know where you save it). It may take a few minutes to download, because it's about 31 mega-bites. After listening, just delete it from your computer.
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Thursday, April 26, 2007
WHY DON'T I READ MY BIBLE
I wasn’t trying to hurt his feelings when I told him that reading his bible must not be that important to him. He had just told me that he wasn’t finding any time in his daily schedule to read his bible. I told him I didn’t want to sound preachy, but if he wasn’t reading his bible everyday then it really wasn’t a priority in his life.

Reading and studying our bible ought to be a priority in our lives. If we're not finding time to read our bible everyday then it’s not a priority in our lives. If we're not finding time to read our bible everyday then it’s not as important to us as other things. Let me explain. We find time to eat three meals everyday because it’s important to us. It’s a priority. We find time to shower, brush our teeth and hair everyday, because it’s important to us. It’s a priority. We find time to watch a little television or sit in front of the computer everyday, because it’s important to us. We chose to make those things a priority. I could go on.

The man that I mentioned above found time for golf in his daily schedule because it was a priority in his life. So, don't you agree that we find time in our lives to do the things that are really important to us? And if I’m not finding the time to read my bible it must be because it’s not as important as other things in my life.


So how can we make reading our bible everyday a priority? We've got to fall in love with God. We've got to want to know Him better. We've got to want a relationship with His Son.

Let me suggest five things that might help us in our bible reading ...

  1. OPEN IT! If you don't open it you can't read it. Find a time, a place and open it. Find a place that's best for you and open it. You'll never be able to read it till you open it.


  2. READ IT! Start learning God's word by reading it. Just read. Read it like you'd read a personal and living letter (Hebrews 4:12). Don't analyze each word at this point just get the picture. Don't get bogged down on things you don't understand at this point, just read. Read a Gospel, read Proverbs or read from the Psalms, but read.


  3. STUDY IT! After you read go back and study it. Don't be afraid to use other helps like Bible Dictionaries, Bible Encyclopedias or a good commentary (2 Timothy 2:15).


  4. OBEY IT! That's a tall order for some people, but if you're going to open it, read it and study it, you need to obey it. Respond to what it teaches. Don't just be one who reads and studies God's word, be a person who lives God's word (Matthew 7:24-27).


  5. SHARE IT! Share it with others. Share it with people who don't know about God's word. Once it motivates you, then you motivate others (Matthew 28:18-20).
Sadly, some of us carry our cell phone more than we do our bible. We take our cell everywhere, but not our bible. We even take our cell phones to church on Sunday, but we still forget our bibles on Sunday. If we forget our cell, we go back and get it. If we forget our bible - “Oh well, maybe I’ll remember to get it next time.” Teenagers sneak their cell phones into school even though they are told to leave it at home, but they don't think about sneaking their bibles into school. We can’t live without our cell phone and we probably have it with you right now, but do we have our bible with us right now? Shame on us for being more interested in our cellular phones than we are God’s word.

I want to make God's word a priority in my life. I want my relationship with Him to be the most important thing in my life. May our prayer today be:

"As the deer longs for streams of water, so I long for you, O God. I thirst for God, the living God." ~Psalm 42:1

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Wednesday, April 25, 2007
T-BALL AND HEAVEN
T-ball. Could there be any form of baseball that's more pure? There are no steroids (unless you think "Sweet Tarts" are a bit questionable). There is no obsession with winning. And, somehow, everyone wins every game. Sweet, simple and untainted, that's what t-ball is.

I have been blessed to coach all four of my boys in T-ball over the years. And, this past Monday evening Cooper, my five-year-old, had his very first T-ball practice. He asked 25 times last week, "How many days till my first T-ball practice?" Then on Monday he started the, "How many hours till T-ball practice?" When T-ball practice finally got started Cooper told me, "Dad, playing T-ball is like being in heaven, this is awesome!"

It got me to thinking that maybe there are some similarities between Christianity, heaven and T-ball. Let see, in T-ball ...
  • You don't keep score.

  • You never get put out.

  • Strikes don't count.

  • At the end, you always win.

That pretty much makes T-ball perfect, just like heaven. You never got put out, your strikes didn't count against you and you leave the game a winner.

In this old world I've decided to put my faith and life in Jesus' hands. I've given him my life because I need him as my Savior. And when I did this: He put me on his team (I don't get put out), he didn't count my strikes (sins) anymore, and best yet, when the end of the game comes (life), I leave here a winner.

Yep, Cooper's theology was right on target, T-ball IS pretty much like heaven. Jesus is an awesome coach. And I'm so thankful he invites me to be on his team.

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Tuesday, April 24, 2007
10 SIGNS YOU'RE NOT READING YOUR BIBLE ENOUGH

  1. You really can't remember if it was Moses or Noah that took the animals on the ark.


  2. You fall for the old preacher's joke, "Turn in your bibles to the book of Hezekiah," when there really is no book of Hezekiah.


  3. You think the old saying "cleanliness is next to godliness" is actually a verse in the Bible.


  4. The preacher announces the sermon is from Genesis and you have to check the table of contents.


  5. You think Shadrack, Meshack and Abednego are 3 of the 31 ice cream flavors at Baskin Robins.


  6. You're just sure that "Do not dance" and "Do not gamble" are two of the ten commandments.


  7. You notice that your bible that you've had for the past twenty years still feels and smells new.


  8. You think Hercules was an Old Testament judge.


  9. You believe absolutely everything that the newspaper and television says, but you question the truthfulness and reliability of the Bible.


  10. You say, "So that's where it's been," when your discover your bible in the same box as your old high school year books.
Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a workman who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth. ~ 2 Timothy 2:15

Can you think of others?

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Monday, April 23, 2007
WHO WILL PAY YOUR MORAL CHARGE CARD (Sermon)
Can you imagine running up $10,000 of debt on a credit card that charged 21% interest? Not a good thing. And if I charged this $10,000 of debt on a Dillard's card, they'd want me to pay it. There would be a bill come with an amount due.

If instead of paying the bill, I decided to just show up at the store and help out. They'd appreciate it, but they'd still want their money. Someone would still have to pay the bill.

Much like charging debt to an earthly charge card, my sins are charged to a heavenly one, and someone has to pay the debt. Because of my sins, I've run up a debt much larger than $10,000. Our sins racked up millions of dollars in moral debt. And instead of 21% interest, when our bill comes due it'll cost us our lives. "For the wages of sin is death," Romans 6:23. And, being good from this day forward is nice, but it doesn't pay for the past moral debt you've run up.

Thankfully God bridged the gap between His love and His justice with His Son. And there are two things that can happen when your bill of moral debt comes due ...
  1. You hang your head on the day of judgement with no one to pay your debt. That debt costing you an eternity away from God.

  2. Or you stand there with Jesus as your Savior and say, "I've charged my moral indebtedness to Jesus."

"God made him who had no sin to be sin for us, so that we might become his righteousness" ~ 2 Corinthians 5:21

Want to know how that can happen? This weeks sermon is: "Who Will Pay Your Moral Charge Card?"

See you tomorrow for Top 10 Tuesday!

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Sunday, April 22, 2007
TORNADO
Growing up in the panhandle of Texas you learn that tornadoes are a part of life. Last May the city of Childress was hit by a tornado (pictures here and more pictures here). We spent weeks cleaning up and recovering from the damage.

Last night the little town of Tulia (about 90 miles away), where we lived for 10 years, was hit hard by a tornado (video & new video here). The news reported and showed video of the tornado going right through the western part of the town. The power is down there, but I have been able to contact friends and church members by cellular phone. Sounds like there was a lot of damage done, and a few injuries at this time. Homes, business and property have been damaged and destroyed.

The police have closed the town and at this time won't let anyone in, I'm going to try and go over to check on them later today or tomorrow. Please say a little prayer for Tulia today.

Thanks

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Saturday, April 21, 2007
SATURDAY READING: SEXUAL MISCONDUCT AMONG CHURCH LEADERS
I'd like to introduce you to a new friend and new blogger for this weeks "Saturday Reading."

I wrote some articles last month on "Sexual Ethics" among church leaders. I did a two part series that you can find here: (
part 1 and part 2). It obviously touched a nerve from the feedback that was received. Through those articles I met a lot of people who emailed me with questions, hurts and past experiences.

One of the people I met was Di. Di is a 51 year old woman who was first abused by her youth minister 34 years ago. She told me in one of our emails, "I appreciate your facing and publicizing this topic. It is a topic that needs to be taken out of the corners and into the light. If God opens the door, I intend to help with that." Di has done exactly what she has said. She has begun to speak on "Sexual Ethics" at church leaders conferences to ministers, clergy and other church leaders. She's written articles and she has begun to help others, who have been hurt, through their healing journey.

Di has recently started a blog that will offer a safe environment to talk about this subject. Di's first post is a powerful one about her journey to find healing. It is a must read, but let me warn you, it is not Rated G. I hope you'll stop by and welcome her to the blogging community. You can find her blog here:
"The Prodigal Daughter."

And, I am going to have to agree with her, this subject is something that we don't need to hide like it never happened or happens.

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Friday, April 20, 2007
MINISTERING ISN'T ALWAYS EASY
I was meeting with a group of 2nd - 5th graders an hour before Wednesday night church services for a little devotional and play time. Two sisters came in a little late, both crying. I asked the older what was wrong and she told me that they had lost their new dog Muffy.

Feeling the need to help these two little girls' spirits, I gathered everyone around in a circle to hold hands. "I'm going to pray about Kelsey and Shawnee's little dog Muffy," I told the group. We bowed our heads, and I prayed and asked God to return little Muffy back to Kelsey and Shawnee. I was feeling really good about helping comfort these two sweet girls until I finished the prayer. At that point the oldest of the two girls looked up at me and said, "Our dog's not like 'lost'. He's dead and we don't want him back. That'd be really gross."

I felt so helpful.

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Thursday, April 19, 2007
AN AMAZING LOVE STORY
In the margin of my Bible, near the passage of 1 Peter 3:1-4, I have the words, "Bonnie Carlile" written. Bonnie was one of the finest Christian ladies I ever met. The very first thing Bonnie ever told me when I became her preacher was, "You've got to help get my husband Dale to become a Christian." Bonnie and Dale had been married for 57 years. They raised 4 children who now all had children of their own.

Bonnie never missed church. She raised her children in the church, but Dale just wasn't interested. No one was quite sure why, although Bonnie believe someone had hurt his feelings years and years ago and he just quit coming.

Bonnie would come by my office once a week or so and say, "Can we have a prayer for Dale together today?" I was always more than willing. Bonnie once told me that there had never been a day pass in her life that she hadn't prayed that Dale would give his life to Christ. I told her to just keep praying. I can still hear her say to me, "I can't stand thinking about enjoying heaven with out my Dale."

Dale and I got to be great friends. Dale was a good man who loved to talk of the Dallas Cowboys and the local happenings, but he never really wanted to talk about God, Jesus or church. I do remember when she called me, so excited, saying, "Dale wanted to know what you preached about this morning and what we studied about in Bible class." Dale was beginning to ask questions.

Not long after that Bonnie began to get sick. She began to struggle mentally. Alzheimer's set in quickly and the family soon had to make the decision to send Bonnie to a nursing home. Her body was still so strong, but her mind just quit working. Bonnie never got to see her Dale become a Christian, but thankfully that's not the end of the story.

One Sunday morning I looked up while preaching and there sat Dale on a back pew. He scooted and before anyone really took notice of him. It wasn't long after that, that Dale started to come a little more often. He began to attend devotionals and worship with Bonnie at the nursing home where she was staying. Although, mentally Bonnie didn't realize it, Dale was seeking.

On October 20, 2001, I was blessed to witness Dale Carlile confess his faith in Jesus Christ and be baptized. He began that day a new relationship with God. And while I think God had much to do with softening his heart, so did his sweet wife Bonnie, who never ever gave up on him. Bonnie is an example of 1 Peter 3:1-4

"Wives, in the same way be submissive to your husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, when they see the purity and reverence of your lives. Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight."

That's why I have written in the margin of my bible "Bonnie Carlile." She was the perfect example of this. I was a little sad the day Dale became a Christian, because she was not there to know it. Bonnie was to sick to know that her beloved Dale that she’d prayed for so fervently for all these years had become a Christian.

I did Dale's funeral in June of 2005. He got to heaven first. Bonnie passed away 7 months after Dale from her battles with her Alzheimer's. Because of her sickness, those last few years of Bonnie's life, she didn't know that Dale given his life to Christ. Oh how I would have loved to have seen her face that day she saw heaven. Can you imagine when she looked up at the glories of heaven and there among them was her Dale? The same Dale she'd prayed for every day. The same Dale that she told me, "I just can't imagine enjoying heaven without my Dale." I think she probably shed a tear of joy and maybe, just maybe, danced a little. Now those two old love birds will spend an eternity together, because the faith, perseverance and example of a faithful wife.

What a love story! And it's all because of Jesus.
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Wednesday, April 18, 2007
10 REASONS I DON'T LIKE PEOPLE WHO COMPLAIN
Nothing gets under my skin more than a person who constantly gripes and complains about everything. So I thought I'd share 10 reasons I don't like people who complain...
  1. People who complain all the time are unhappy people. If you hang out with a complainer it will suck all the life right out of you.


  2. Complaining takes no talent and no skills. Anyone can do it!


  3. Complainers never see the positive in anything only the negative. Everything is always bad.


  4. Complainers can always "one-up" you and always have something worse than you. If you tell them that you had a tooth pulled at the dentist, it just so happens they had to have 4 root canals that same day. If your dog gets hit by a car, it just so happens that their dog was mauled on the front lawn by a lion, while all the kids were watching of course.


  5. It's un-Christ-like.


  6. People who complain all the time only tear people down, and never build anyone up (Ephesians 4:2).


  7. When a complainer has a legitimate complaint you can't take them serious, because they complain about everything. You don't know when it's a serious complaint or just another gripe.


  8. They are no fun to be around.


  9. They are always willing to point out the problem, but never willing to be a part of the solution. Do not ask them to help, it's just their job to point out what is wrong.


  10. Complainers feel that their "gift" or "talent" from God is complaining and pointing out what's wrong. I suggest they do what the one talent man did in the Bible and go bury their talent in a hole! (Matthew 25:14-30).

"Do everything without complaining or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure, children of God without fault in a crooked and depraved generation, in which you shine like stars in the universe..." Philippians 2:14-15

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Monday, April 16, 2007
VIRGINIA TECH - "WHY WOULD GOD ALLOW THIS TO HAPPEN"
Our hearts are saddened at this time over the events that have taken place at Virginia Tech today. 33 people have been killed and many others injured in senseless, godless, evil and cowardly act violence that took place at VT. Please, please remember to pray tonight for the victims, their families and our country.

I'd also like to share a few thought on this subject (that we've talked about in the past) of "Why would God allow this to happen?"

I'm not sure that anyone will ever be able to answer that question. It's been a question that has been asked since the beginning of the world. I'm not sure that I have an answer today, but I have given it a lot of thought. I'd like to share with you three thoughts to the question, "If God is great and God is good, why do the innocent suffer?"

  • First thought: That is a fair question. It’s okay to ask that question. Somewhere we've been given the idea that if we ask why the innocent suffer, it is a sign of unbelief or a challenge to God. Not so. The Bible asks the question often. Even Jesus quoted the 22nd Psalm, as he hung on the cross, "My God, my God, why have you abandoned me?" It’s a fair question. Not a question of unbelief or a challenge to God.
  • Second thought: I don’t know. The Bible never gives an answer. I don't know why the innocent suffer, but I do know that sandwiched up against the blackness of evil is the brightness of good. Ultimately I do know that God will not leave evil unanswered. I think there is a day coming when all of the crooked things will be made straight, all of the dark things will be made bright, and all of the innocent will be vindicated. I think that is what the cross of Christ is all about, and the resurrection is God's declaration that eventually things will go right.
  • Third thought: Good is God’s character and no matter what happens in this world, that can’t change. What I’m saying is you can focus on the good in God or the evil in the world. I hope you have found enough goodness in the world to choose to keep lighting candles instead of cursing the darkness.
If God is great and God is good, why do the innocent suffer? That is a fair question. I don't know that there is a good answer out there, but I do know there is a goodness in this world that cannot be explained outside of a God who loves you and me. God IS good and all the evil in the world will not and can not change that.

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TASTE AND SEE THAT THE LORD IS GOOD (Sermon)
Yesterday (Sunday) was a blast. It was both exciting and fun. Yes, church can be both exciting and fun. The building was packed, there were lots of visitors, lots of necks to hug and I love preaching about our good God. I love my Childress church family.

Lea and Parker got to go to the NASCAR races yesterday at Texas Motor Speedway with 200,000 other screaming race fans. I stayed home this time and watched it on television. It was my first time in 5 years not to go (I was a little sad). But they had a great day doing mother and son things together. They got to see a great race and they said they had a wonderful devotional together.

Tomorrow we'll do "Top 10 Tuesday." But now, here are some brief thoughts about yesterday's sermon and the link to listen to it if you'd like (PS - Neva, I mentioned you in my sermon... scary, hua?).

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SERMON LINK: "Taste and See that the Lord is Good"

It seems in this world there are two kinds of people, givers and takers. And when it comes to takers, no one wants to hang out or hook up with a taker.

In the very same way, I believe that there are many unbelievers who feel God is a taker and not a giver and that's why they are resistant to Christianity. Their feelings are, "Why would I want to hook up with a God who is a taker and not a giver?"

Many unbelievers feel God will take their...

But, taste and see, God is really a GIVER who gives true...

God is a giver, not a taker. The Bible says that "God so loved the world that He GAVE..." (John 3:16) And Romans 8:32 says: "He who did not spare His own Son, but gave Him up for us all--how will He not also, along with Him, graciously give us all things?"

God is a good God. He is definitely a giver and not just a taker ... "Taste & See that the Lord is Good"

QUESTION: What do you think are some other reasons that people are unwilling to give their lives to God?

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Saturday, April 14, 2007
THE CHURCH & HUGGERS
I love watching the Special Olympics. Recently while watching, they interviewed one of the young ladies who volunteers every year to help. She said she signs up for the same job every year and loves it. If you ask her what she does she’ll tell you “I’m a hugger. Every person who participates in any event gets a hug.” As you watch these special young people compete, some aren’t able to swim very far, some aren’t able to run very fast and some aren’t even able to finish, but as each person gets done they get a big hug for their effort.

You know - our world needs more huggers. Most of us respond more quickly to encouragement and affirmation than we do put-downs and intimidation. If I understand the Bible correctly, the church is to be a place where people affirm, encourage, and support each other – spiritual hugging.

In today’s world we place so much emphasis on winning that we overlook people who are doing their best. The reward of personal satisfaction doesn’t always go to the best but to the one who does his best. Have you given a “hug” lately to someone who simply participated and did his or her best?

The church is known for a lot of things, both good and bad. I think it would be great if the church was known as a “hugging” place? The church ought to be the most encouraging place in the world.

I saw this video recently about hugging that was taken on the streets of Hollywood, California. The video is great and the music is cool too. Check it out when you have time. It will make you smile.

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Friday, April 13, 2007
STREET PEOPLE- A PLEA FOR HELP
"Some give by GOING. Others go by GIVING. Without both, reaching the lost is IMPOSSIBLE."



I'd like to tell you about my friend Michael's ministry. Mike's ministry is with the street people, homeless and any other needy people in Lubbock, Texas. Mike ministers along side the South Plains church in Lubbock in their Provider's Pantry.

With spring time now upon us, Mike has lots of plans like a hot-dog fest on the street. He would also like to hold a campout on the church building lawn through the night on Saturday nights and call it a “Lock Out.” He already has a hot-dog grill for that, but not the food. Mike does not require a salary to do this work, but does it because he loves people and he has a heart like Jesus. He also does not have a ministry budget, or a slice of the church budget with which to operate. So, the reason for this post is, Mike is looking for a few items of need/want for this ministry at a low, low cost of FREE or as close to it as he can find. Many of us have these items around our house that we could donate.

If you can help, here are some things Mike said he could use:
  1. A pop-up gazebo that sets up super fast and easy, and packs up the same. He found one at Wal-mart for $93 new and a windbreak canvas to match for an additional $35. However, he would be happy with a second hand gazebo if one is donated.

  2. Folding lawn chairs. Light and easy to carry. If he had five, that would be great; fifteen would be about ideal.

  3. A camping lantern that makes good light and does not blow out in the Lubbock wind (not sure there is such a thing).

  4. Used sleeping bags.

  5. Bibles. Old or new does not matter. Cheap paperback Bibles are best for mass distribution, but sometimes a special person needs a nice leather one that has not been too terribly used or marked up.

  6. A large out-door cooking pot to cook lots and lots of beans. Mike drives a small Ford Ranger pickup truck, and his dream is to construct some type of rack or stabilizing frame that will hold it upright as he drives around looking for hungry people to feed. Mike, says that free food means A LOT down on the street. It is a great way to connect with street people.

  7. Some miscellaneous things that he can always use are: party balloons, grape juice, paper plates/bowls, and party streamers.

Mike is also in need donors who would like to help buy a food box for these people. The food boxes are $25 each. He purchases two per month himself and if he can get six this month, he will easily find a home in need of it. If you are interested in helping financially, please email him for details here. I sent my check yesterday.

Above all, Mike needs prayers for this ministry. He faced persecution from some drug raged youths for the first time Sunday morning a week ago. That confrontation was difficult to endure. It took place in front of children in the church van and disturbed all who witnessed it. So your prayers are most important for this cause. If you can help in any way it would be appreciated. Again, you can contact Mike here for an address where to send items or you can contact me personally.

Any of my Childress family that would like to help donate any items, if you will get them to me I'd be happy to deliver them personally to Mike. I have already collected a few things.

"I remember hearing about an old comic strip that had two guys talking to each other, and one of them says he has a question for God. He wants to ask why God allows all of this poverty and war and suffering to exist in the world. And his friend says, 'Well, why don't you ask Him?' The fellow shakes his head and says he is scared. When his friend asks why, he mutters, 'I'm scared God will ask me the same question.'"
Over and over, when I ask God why all of these injustices are allowed to exist in the world, I can feel the Spirit whisper to me, 'You tell me why we allow this to happen. You are my body, my hands, my feet.'"
~ The Irresistible Revolution, by Shane Claiborne

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Thursday, April 12, 2007
MY WEDDING RING
My wedding ring is a simple gold band that hasn’t been off my finger in many, many years. The only time I remember it coming off in the past 10 years is when it broke in half and I had to have it fixed.

When you look at it closely, you won’t see any diamonds or engraving. What you will see up close are nicks, scrapes and dings. Those nicks, scrapes and dings symbolize the joy and pain of our marriage, the years gone by, the struggles, the hopes, dreams and promises. It may look good when it’s clean and polished, but it looks more like nearly 19 years of marriage when it’s not.

The simple band of gold, presented to me by my wife on our wedding day, represents so much more than a ceremony of marriage or vows of faith and commitment. My ring symbolizes our family, at first just Lea and I, two young kids in love. Then came the children and all the trials and tribulations that marriages and families endure and somehow survive.

My ring reminds me I can hold her hand or touch her anytime, because she is mine. It reminds me that we’re a team and that we work better together than apart. And, it reminds me that I’m totally committed to her and she’s committed to me.

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Wednesday, April 11, 2007
STUPID THINGS TO SAY TO YOUR WIFE
I could use a little laugh today. Thought we'd have a little fun.

Despite Solomon saying, "A wise man's heart guides his mouth," husbands still have a way of saying things they shouldn't. Even though Paul said, "Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others us, according to their needs, that may benefit those who listen," men still have the amazing ability to stick their foot in their mouth. If we'd just learn to think before we speak our little world would be a better place to live in.

I've been there. I've done it. Just about the time the words leave your mouth you think, "I probably shouldn't have said that!" Here are a few thing stupid things a husband can say to his wife. And just to let you know, one of these I said to my wife, Lea, not to long ago. Not smart.
  • "Are you going to wear THAT?"

  • "How's it going, big momma?"

  • "I make the money, I can do with it what I want."

  • "Honey, I bought you a surprise today... it's a broom."

  • "Have you put on a little weight lately?"

  • "That's not how my mom did it."

  • "I like the way those pants make your tummy pooch out."

  • "Oh, I'm sorry, did you say something?"

  • "You're acting like you mother."

  • "Can we eat our anniversary dinner you made in front of the television and watch Sports Center?

  • (looking at supper) "What's this stuff?"

  • "I wish you dressed nice like Eddie's wife."

  • "I wish you could cook more like my mom does."

You have to agree, they are all "stupid" thing to say to your wife. So, can you think of any more "stupid" things? Things you've said or you've heard said? And, any guesses on which dumb statement above got me in trouble? I'll give you the full story later.

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Answer:

A few years ago we were living in a house that had a really big kitchen with linoleum floors. It was such a pain to sweep with the “little” broom that we had. On my way to work one day I saw a truck parked along side the road with mops, brooms and other household cleaning items for sale. I thought to myself, “A considerate husband would buy a better broom for his wife to use so she didn’t have to use that little one.” I stopped and paid $25 for a nice dust mop (broom). I remembered how well they worked in my high school shop class.

When I got to work I called her to tell her I had bought her a nice prize that cost $25 and would bring it to her when I got home from work that day. I told her she could guess all she wanted but she’d never figure out what it was. I really thought I was doing something really nice. And now (hindsight is 20/20), I can see that a broom wasn’t one of those things she was guessing I would be bringing.

After a few hours of her trying to figure out what it was, I finally came home from work and handed her the broom. “Surprise,” I said, “I bought you a broom today.”

I probably don’t have to tell you the rest of the story, but I will tell you that she has never used that broom even once. It remains in the garage to this day.

Lesson learned!

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Tuesday, April 10, 2007
10 TRAITS OF A HEALTHY CHURCH
I want to be a part of a healthy church not an unhealthy one. So, what are some of the characteristics of the healthy churches? I know there are many, but here are at least 10 traits of a healthy church.

  1. Healthy churches talk about Jesus all the time. Their main focus isn't their building, their budget or their bottom line, it's Jesus. They don't have gimmicks, they have Jesus. He's at the center of everything they do and teach.

  2. Healthy churches communicate clearly. The key to success in real estate is location, location, location. The key to success in most all the areas of the church is communication, communication, communication. Use bulletins, newsletters, handouts, email and websites to communicate. You cannot over communicate your visions, goals and plans.

  3. Healthy churches involve people. Healthy churches don't have 10% of the people doing 90% of the work. You've got to incorporate and involve people. Let them know they are needed.

  4. Healthy churches use the Bible. It's the best book ever. It's full of answers for people's lives. To use something other than the bible is stupid. Don't tell me that if you teach from the bible, people won't come - nothing is further from the truth.

  5. Healthy churches put a BIG focus on children. Children are the future. You cannot put to much emphasis on the youth and children. VBS, bible classes, youth functions and youth ministers are all valuable assets in reaching, teaching and raising youth.

  6. Healthy churches teach the Bible in a way people can understand. A lesson taught or preached without any application is a great mistake. People must be challenged. People need practical lessons that will help in their daily lives. God didn't make the bible difficult, so you don't need to either.

  7. Healthy churches open their arms and lives to others. Healthy churches know that there are times when physical needs are more important than spiritual needs. As they old saying goes, "People don't care about what you know, till they know how much you care." The church not just about learning Christianity it's about LIVING Christianity.

  8. Healthy churches are actively involved in outreach. One of the traits of a healthy church is they are always looking for ways to reach out to the lost around them. Their mission is to share the good news. And they remind themselves regularly, "To keep the main thing, the main thing."

  9. Healthy churches have leaders who lead. Churches will take on the personality of the leadership. If the leadership is passive and unwilling to set an example the above mentioned things ... the church will follow. But when a leadership stands up and goes to work, you watch, so will the church.

  10. Healthy churches have an atmosphere where people will want to bring their unchurched friends. I don't know how many times I've heard in the past, "The last place I wanted to bring my friend was to church, because I knew the preacher would say something to embarrass them or me." How sad. The church needs to be a safe environment where people know I can bring my family or friend without them getting their "hides nailed to the wall."

Here's 10 traits of a healthy church ... What can you think of that I missed?


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Monday, April 09, 2007
JESUS CAME TO SUMMER CAMP
I spend one week at QMCC (Quartz Mountain Christian Camp) every summer with about 150 kids. Last year one of the staff that came and helped was a man named Kendel. Kendel is a band director and is excellent with the kids. The interesting thing about Kendel is he looks exactly like Jesus (or at least the way we think he looked).

I had never seen or met Kendel before last year's camp session. All I knew was a lot of people had told me, "Trey, he looks just like Jesus." But I didn't know how much until I saw him for myself. Wow.

When I first saw him from a distance, I was shocked. All I wanted to do was stare. There he stood with about 15 little kids around him. It was as if I was looking at Jesus. It was an amazing feeling. I sat there thinking to myself, "How would I react if Jesus was actually here at camp?" If Kendel really was Jesus, what would I do? I remember wanting so much to go and talk to him, but I felt so uncomfortable. I wasn't worthy. And would Jesus even know who I was? Yet all I could do was stare. I had never felt so many emotions at one single time in my life. I immediately thought of the woman with the issue of blood (Mark 5), who felt so unworthy, yet so drawn. I then thought of Peter who when he met Jesus, fell at his feet and said, "Go away from me, I'm a sinner." All I knew is I just wanted to meet him and touch him.

I did go over to Kendel and introduce myself. He was a super-nice man. I enjoyed getting to know him that week. He did look a lot like what I think Jesus would look like on the outside. But I found out that Kendel also looked a lot like Jesus on the inside. I remember one of Kendel's lessons from camp. He was talking about how people are always looking at him and telling him he looks like Jesus. He made the point that it's more important to him to look like Jesus on the inside than on the outside. I remember him saying, "I want to act like him more than I want to look like him."

I was impressed. Summer camp is still about 3 months ways. I think Kendel's coming back again this year. I'm looking forward to getting to know him better. Not because he looks like Jesus on the outside but because he looks like Jesus on the inside. I love people who remind me of my Savior.

So how will you react when you see Jesus for the first time? Maybe something like this song
(click here) I've been humming in my head all morning.

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See you tomorrow on Top 10 Tuesday!

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Sunday, April 08, 2007
WHAT THE CROSS MEANS TO ME (Sermon)
SUNDAY'S SERMON (What the Cross Means to Me)

I've carried a cross in my pocket for a long time. It doesn't bring me luck. It's not there to identify me as a Christian, nor does it protect me from harm. But what it does is remind me of some things. Every time I stick my hands in my pocket and I feel that little cross I remember certain things. It reminds me of ...

C hrist - I remember that Christ is in the center of my life and my focus needs to be on Him.
R esponsibility - I'm reminded that there's responsibility in carrying a cross.
O thers - It's not just about me. It's about others ... loving others and serving others.
S in - Sin is ugly, and it's my sin that put Christ on the cross.
S trength - I find strength in and through the cross.

I love the cross. It reminds me who I am and whose I am. Listen to the whole sermon here: (What the Cross Means to Me)

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I have a couple of new friends I'd like you to welcome to the blogging community ... My friend Matt and his wife, Crystal, who are missionaries headed to Africa. Also, Brandon & Katie who also are missionaries headed to Ukraine, but are currently working with the AIM program in Lubbock.

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Friday, April 06, 2007
A PASSION FOR THE CHRIST

I sat down and watched this video this week. What a great reminder of just how much God loves us. Hope everyone has a great Easter.

Words I thought described this video were words like: powerful, touching and love. What "single" words can you think of to describe it?

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Thursday, April 05, 2007
IT'S ALL ABOUT KIDS
The local elementary school is right across the street from our church building. I get to know many of the elementary school kids through a weekly "Bible story time" that I do in the library before school each week. A while back the school said they needed a place to throw a party that was "off campus" so we invited them to come over and party in our church's picnic area. About 100 kids and their parents showed up for pizza and cokes at lunch time today. It was a lot of fun. Plus, I got to meet a lot of parents from the community that I did not know. I love kids, I love meeting their parents and I love using our building for things like this.

And who says preachers never get to have any fun!

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Wednesday, April 04, 2007
SOMEONE SHOT THEIR PA
I was reading back through the book "Finish Strong" this week and it reminded me why Steve Farrar is my most favorite "men's" author. Girls, if your husband doesn't have any of Steve's books, go buy him one today!

In one of the chapters of "Finish Strong," Steve writes about a dog that walks into a saloon: "A dog walked into a Dodge City saloon and ordered a root beer. The barkeep snickered, "We don't serve dogs or root beer in this saloon." The dog said, "I've got the money and my money is as good as any man's. Give me a root beer!" The bartender was tired of talking so he reached under the bar, pulled out a gun , and shot the dog in the foot. "Now get out of here and don't ever come back."

A week later, the dog came back, this time wearing his gun belt that holstered two guns. Not seeing the man who shot him behind the bar, he walked up to the new bartender, looked him squarely in the eye