Thursday, May 31, 2007
PICK YOUR LANE CAREFULLY
(This is part of last weeks sermon: Life is a Highway, Chose Your Lane Carefully)

Last summer going through the metropolis of Dallas, Texas we had lots of choices on what road we'd take. If we picked the right lane, we could get exactly where we wanted to go, but if we chose the wrong lane, it could take us way off our course. There were left exits and right exits, signs leading to here and there. More than once in the past, I've been in the wrong lane, and it's taken me an hour to get back on the right road. But this time, we stuck to the map and got exactly where we wanted to go.

Life isn't much different. We're always making choices on what lanes to choose, so pick your lane carefully because every road leads somewhere. Choose wrong and you could be in BIG trouble (
Proverbs 14:12).

Here are some lanes that we sometimes get on that don't have a good destination:

1) THE FAST LANE

  • The prodigal son knew something about the fast lane. He was in the fast lane, in a hurry to experience the fun of the world. He found out that the fast lane will eventually wind up in the pig pen (Luke 15:11-16). There's so much more to life than how much fun you can have and how fast can you do it.

2) THE FALSE LANE

  • God doesn't pull any punches. He hates false things (Proverbs 20:23, Proverbs 6:16-19). There are so many things in this life that are false. They look one way, but they're really not. The lottery tells you it's the richest pot ever but doesn't tell you your shot at winning is 1 in 25 million. If it's too good to be true ... it probably is. God desires honesty and faithfulness, not falsehood. Watch out for the false lane on the highway of life.

3) THE FOOL'S LANE

  • There's one thing I don't want the Lord ever calling me and that's a fool. He did with the man in Luke 12:16-21, who spent his entire life storing up treasures on earth and not in heaven. So many people choose fool's lane. "If I can't have more, I'm not going to be happy," they say. When multi-millionaire John D. Rockefeller pasted away, a group of men gathered around his accountant and asked, "How much did he leave behind?" "All of it," the accountant said. Don't choose fool's lane.

4) THE FEAR LANE

  • So many people are scared these days. Scared to drink the water, breathe the air, leave a door unlocked, play outside, go for a walk, etc. "Do not fear" is mentioned 365 times in the New Testament. That's one "do not fear" for every day of the year. I'm thinking that since it's the command given to us more than any others ... maybe God was trying to tell us something. Something like ... "DO NOT FEAR!"

5) THE FAITH LANE

  • Now here's a good lane you can take in life. The faith lane is the only lane that leads to something productive. It leads to eternal life (Hebrews 11, Romans 10:17).

They say "life is a highway". Pick your lane carefully because whatever lane you choose, you may be on it a while.

(This is a brief outline of last Sunday's lesson (minus the meat and a handful of stories). If you want to follow along on the internet: Click Here. For those with dial-up who can't make it work: Click Here. )

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LOOKING LIKE JESUS
I was in a Lubbock McDonald's yesterday following a funeral. I had gone there to have coffee with my good friends and fellow bloggers Matt & Crystal James. While there, I also ran into blogger Kathy, who was in Lubbock visiting family. It was an amazing little blogging reunion.

A crazy thing happened while standing in line waiting my turn to buy coffee. A lady turned to me from the drink dispenser and said, "Sir, you're out of ice." I guess that the dress slacks and tie gave me a "manager" look. I quickly told her I'd see what I could do. I leaned over the counter and told the real manager, "The ice machine is empty." He quickly had it filled.

Not more than 20 seconds later, another woman came up to me with her hamburger in hand, "Sir, they put pickles on my Big Mac, and I clearly stated I didn't want pickles," she said. So, being the nice guy I am, I told her, "Just take it up to the counter and they'll get you fixed up." She smiled and said thank you.

By now I was having fun. The door opened, and as another customer came in, and I said, "Hi, welcome to McDonald's!" By this time, the manager (who was also in slacks and a tie) had caught on to what had happened. When my turn in line came, I ordered my coffee, and the manager and I had a laugh about my mistaken identity. When the nice lady handed me my coffee and told me it would be $1.08, I said, "What, no employee discount?"

The whole ordeal got me to thinking on the way home last night. I may have looked the part of the McDonald's manager, but had you taken a close look, you would have clearly seen I was not. The real McDonald's manager had a radio on his belt, a name tag on his pocket, a patch on his shirt that said McDonald's, a rag in his pocket and a tired look on his face. Just by being dressed like the manager, people were actually asking me for help.

How many times have I looked like Christ from a distance, but up close and personal, nothing really like him at all? I want to look like Jesus in everything I do, and I want to be a part of a church that has that same desire. A church that looks like, acts like, talks like and lives like JESUS. Not just from a distance, but up close too.

What would really happen if we started dressing like and living like Jesus in our character and actions? I ache to be a person that looks like Jesus in my ...
  • Compassion

  • Giving

  • Service

  • Forgiveness

  • Love

  • Faithfulness

  • Etc.

So, what (or who) does your church look like? A church? A religious organization? Christ? And if someone needed help, could they look at your life and see Jesus in you?

Besides, in the end, if you live like Christ on this earth the Bible says come judgement day ... you DO get the employee discount. "Well done good and faithful servant."

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Wednesday, May 30, 2007
7 WAYS TO RATE YOUR CHURCH
Christianity Today has a good article on seven ways to measure your church’s ministry. The article states that “that most people rate church atmosphere within the first 15 minutes of their first visit.” The below seven areas will most likely contribute to how people rate your church’s atmosphere on their first visit:

  1. Sensing the presence of God. “Experiencing God dwarfs everything else as people rate a church’s atmosphere.”

  2. Others-centered. “An others-centered church is immediately interested in new people, what they need, and how the church can help.”

  3. Understandable terminology. “Healthy churches tend to speak in terms everyone can understand. No secret jargon.”

  4. People who look like me. “Our level of comfort can be high or low depending on how quickly we find someone else who looks like us.”

  5. Healthy problem handling. “What makes a healthy church is not the absence of problems. It’s how problems are handled.”

  6. Accessibility. “High ratings go to churches that are ‘barrier free’ in every sense of the term.”

  7. Sense of Expectancy. “Listen to hallway conversations about the church, and you can decide if the primary verb tense is past, present, or future. Most healthy churches are hopeful churches. They are permeated with high expectations of God's blessing for the future.”

If interested in reading more about the seven ways you can church, I encourage you to read the full text at Christianity Today.

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I'm headed to Lubbock, Texas today for Cline Paden's funeral. Cline was an amazing visionary in the kingdom of God. There is no telling how many people are apart of God's kingdom today because of Cline's love for lost people.

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Tuesday, May 29, 2007
10 CRAZY THINGS I'VE SEEN WHILE PREACHING
I've preached a lot of sermons over the past 20 years. I've seen a lot of "crazy" things while preaching. Here are 10...
  1. People sleeping (of course).


  2. A child playing a Gameboy.


  3. A man on the front pew clipping his toe nails.


  4. My zipper unzipped.


  5. A man doubled-over in pain in the foyer at the back of the auditorium and unable to get any ones attention to help him.


  6. One of my children "wave" at me.


  7. People listening intently (thankfully).


  8. The electricity goes off and it becomes pitch black. Someone lit a small candle, placed it on the pulpit and I was told to keep preaching, so I did.


  9. Hearing the "snap" of a mouse-trap in the empty baptistery behind me and then hearing the "screeching" of a dieing rat through the rest of the sermon (during a gospel meeting at a little country church).


  10. A man getting so tickled at something I said that I had to stop and let him catch his breath before continuing.

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Monday, May 28, 2007
OLD TESTAMENT CARD STORE



Bizarro is one of my favorite cartoonists. He's got a warped sense of humor and an odd way of looking at life. I think those are the reasons I like him so much.

As for the cartoon, I'm sure glad things have changed since then.

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Sunday, May 27, 2007
WORTH READING

Here are a few things you might find interesting to read ...

Have a great Sunday ~ Trey

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Saturday, May 26, 2007
A CHILD IS NEVER TO YOUNG TO LEARN ABOUT GOD

A new tool called Baby Signs is helping babies learn to communicate with sign language before they can talk. The video below is a 13 month old little girl who is learning to read.

Do not underestimate the learning potential of your baby or the babies in your children's ministry at church. From this video I see two important lessons:

  1. A child is never too young to start learning about God.
  2. Fill your home and church nurseries with items that teach about God.

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Friday, May 25, 2007
TRUE GRACE and PURE RANDOMNESS
SUMMER TIME: It been a crazy week around here this week. The last week of school always is. The boys are pumped about being out for the summer. School doesn't start back this year until the end of August, so they'll get 3 months off for summer and we'll need them. Here's why ...

GROWING UP: Taylor, my 17 year-old, had a GREAT week, in his eyes. He got sent home the last week of school ... get this ... because he needed to shave. He was PUMPED. He's been working on his "whiskers" on his chin for months. He came in giving "high-fives" and said, "I've reached man-hood." Then he quickly shaved and went back to school. That was a cause for celebration ... lunch at the Deuce (Chinese Buffet) that day.

NATE: I'd like to give a shout out to my partner in crime here in Childress, Nate Bundy. Nate is our youth minister and does a great job with our kids. He has blessed my life as a friend, co-worker and as a spiritual figure to my teenage boys. He has tons of energy, tons of commitment and tons of love for kids. John Maxwell once said, "Those closest to you will determine your level of success." I'm continually discovering the truth of that particular statement by working with Nate. Thanks Nate for all you do. Oh, and he has a pretty cool wife, Kristin, too.

SERMON LINK: Got a call from a credit card place a while back that wanted to offer me a "True Grace" credit card. I asked the nice lady on the phone what "True Grace" meant. She said, "It means if you can't pay your bill that month on the due date, you can pay it anytime two weeks after the due date without occurring a penalty." I kind of made her mad when I told her that's not "True Grace" at all. "True grace means I shouldn't have to pay it at all," I told her. I tried to explain to her what "True Grace" really was, but she said that's not what true grace meant on this card. I told her she could call me back when she had a REAL "True Grace" card. That got me thinking about God's true grace and what real grace really was. Here is a sermon on "True Grace" if you want to listen: CLICK HERE. If you are still living in the past and have dial up :) here is instructions on how to download a sermon: Click Here.

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Thursday, May 24, 2007
CAREER DAY - What do Preachers Do?
I spent yesterday morning taking part in Childress Elementary's Career Day. Wow, it was too much fun. I worried about how I could make my "career" as a minister sound interesting and keep the large group of 10 and 11 year-olds entertained.

When the day ended I thought that each group that came through listened well, and I think my talk went well too. The amazing thing was that I was the one that wound up being entertained. Here's why...

I asked them, "What are some things you think preachers (that was their choice of words) do?" Here were some of their responses and my thoughts in parentheses:

  • Preachers understand the Bible. (Sometimes we do and other times we just pretend to.)
  • Preachers have fun. (I like that kid.)
  • Preachers pray a whole lot. (This one was mentioned about 10 times. I think need to pray more.)
  • Preachers get to see and bless lots of dead bodies. (This kid was kind of scaring me.)
  • Preachers work only one day a week. (Actually it's one and a half. Don't forget Wednesday nights.)
  • Preachers help people. (Finally getting somewhere.)

After I was through with each group, I asked them if they had any questions about what I do. Here were a few of their questions:

  • Do you get scared when you go to the prison to teach? (That was a good question.)
  • Do people sleep when you preach? (It was getting a little too personal.)
  • Can you tell things about the future? (I'm thinking the kid that wanted to know about blessing dead bodies may be a little odd when he grows up.)
  • Are their mythical creatures in the Bible like my Grandpa said? (I would have liked to have followed up on this one.)
  • Why are there big words in the Bible? (Good question.)
  • Are you older than my dad? (Probably.)
  • Has anyone ever "objected" in a wedding when you say, "Is there anyone here who objects to this wedding?" (I told them, "No, because I always take this part out of my wedding notes. If someone wants to object they should have done so long before now.")

Kids are so inquisitive.

"And Jesus said: "I tell you the truth, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven."

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Wednesday, May 23, 2007
GOING TO CHURCH or BEING THE CHURCH
Want to see 10 of the most amazing church buildings in the world? I mean "jaw dropping" amazing? Click here

But I can't seem to get enough of this discussion: Is church supposed to be a place that you GO TO or BELONG TO, or is it more about BEING something or someone?

We get up and tell our kids, "Let's go to church." We tell them to put on (or take off) their "church" clothes and put on their "play" clothes. When we talk about church, we talk about it as something you go do instead of something you are.

It seems to me that the early church was more about people than it was about buildings and programs. I'm not anti-building. We have a pretty nice one that has proven to be a tremendous TOOL – but that’s all it really is - a "tool." But if you take away the people, what do you have? A building! Some sound equipment. Perhaps a nice place to have a reunion or get together. That's it!

I dream of a kind of church community that realizes that church isn't something we "go to", but something we ARE on Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, etc.. And we need to intentionally build this kind of thinking into our church community - all the way from the little kids to the adults.

That means that I need to be focused on BEING the church - loving and accepting people, reaching out in care to others within our church community, focused on being the hands and feet of Jesus right here in our local community and then even further out in our world.

So let me throw this one out there: What do you see as the purpose of church? How do we help people stay focused on BEING the church VS. seeing church as something you ATTEND or GO TO? Is there even an answer to these questions? I don't have the answers, but I hope we're asking the right questions.

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Tuesday, May 22, 2007
10 REASONS WHY JESUS AMAZES ME
  1. He Cared About People. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to discovers that "huge crowds" were always gathering around Jesus. There were times when the crowds nearly crushed him. What was it about Jesus that attracted people to him like a magnet? He served others, loved them and guided them into a relationship with his Father. He didn't look for "deserving" people to care for (there were none) ... but "undeserving." He healed, fed and touched those in need (Mark 10:45). He taught us what real ministry is: Service. There was no class distinction for Jesus. He cared for the fishermen, tax collectors, the adulterer and the 5 time divorcee. He cared about people.


  2. Jesus Was A Man of Action. His life would have been one big action movie. There was nothing boring about his life. He spent his time here not just telling people how to live, but showing (action) people how to live. He showed us God through his actions (John 14:9).


  3. Jesus Communicated with the Common Man. There seems to be two kinds of teachers in this world ... communicators and intellectuals. Communicators take the difficult and make it simple. Intellectuals take the simple and make it difficult. Unfortunately, there are far too many intellectuals trying to communicate the Gospel today. Jesus was simply a communicator. He didn't preach many expository sermons. There are some instances where he uses scripture, however, the overwhelming majority of the time he told stories and painted pictures. He taught with a towel, a bird, a flower, a shepherd, a son, a coin, a flower, a child, a plank and other stories to make his point.


  4. Jesus Had Something To Say. After he preached the sermon on the mount, the people were amazed by his teaching because he taught with authority (Matthew 7:28-29). Like the old E.F. Hutton commercial, when Jesus talked, people listened. I love the fact that Jesus taught on significant things that people needed to know. Things like eternity, death, how to treat one another, how to forgive and how to enter the Kingdom of God. He didn't spend much time preaching a lot of history lessons.


  5. Jesus Offended the Religious People & Hung Out With Sinners. The only people who Jesus looked down on were the "religious" people who looked down on others. Jesus didn't give a rip what the religious people thought of him. Jesus called them snakes, vipers and white washed tombs (Matthew 23:25-36). Instead, Jesus hung out with sinners. The people Jesus reached out to were the "sinners", the prostitutes, the fishermen, the adulterer, the divorcee and the tax collectors (Luke 19:10, Matthew 9:12). Jesus hung out with the wrong type of people. He hung out with them so much that he was even accused of being a drunkard and a glutton.


  6. Jesus Came as a Common Man. It amazes me that Jesus, the Son of God, came not as a prince born in a fancy clean castle, but instead as a common man born in a barn. He worked, sweated, hurt, became angry, was happy, was sad, was tempted and experienced death. All the same things I experience day to day. He knows what it's like to be a common person and relates to my struggles (Hebrews 2:18).


  7. Jesus Offered What No One Else Could. Sales people will promise you the sky, but only Jesus can give you peace and salvation (John 14:27, John 14:6). No one can give you what Jesus can.


  8. Jesus Offered Himself for Me. I had no shot at heaven and no shot at a relationship with God. Jesus took my sin upon himself (2 Corinthians 5:21). Now, because of his sacrifice for me, I will stand before God in judgement as perfect. I can hear it now, "Father," Jesus says, "I'd like you to meet Trey, the perfect one" (I just hope my wife's there to hear that).


  9. Jesus Had One Goal and He Accomplished It. His goal was to do the will of His Father. Jesus didn't need a mission statement, he just came to ... “do my Father’s will.” I guess if that was good enough for him…. it’s good enough for me. I'm tired of talking about mission statements, vision statements, strategies and goals. I just want to "do my Father's will."


  10. Jesus ... (You Fill in # 10 With One You Like!)

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Monday, May 21, 2007
A "BEAN COUNTING" MARRIAGE
At least once a day I look at the referrals on my stat-tracker to see where the traffic to my blog is coming from. Over 100 of my referrals every day are from Google where someone has searched, "How to keep my wife happy," or "How to have a happy marriage." I'm not sure why they find my blog, but I'm sure it has something to do with loving to write about happy marriages (See here, here, here and here). We hear and read about so many unhappy marriages I think it's good to hear about some happy ones too.

Stories of long marriages are one of my passions. They encourage me, challenge me and teach me.

The story of Ted and Mildred did just that. They were better known to those here in Childress as Mama H and Grand Ted. They weren't my grandparents, but they blessed my life and left a great legacy of love to all who knew them.

Their life story is an amazing one. In March of 1946, Mildred found herself on a train headed to Texas to marry a man (Ted) she'd only had one date with. They fell in love and married.

For years, Ted & Mildred raised a family and ran Henderson Lumber Yard in Childress, Texas. In 1971, Ted had a heart attack, so his kids took over running the family business. That gave Ted and Mildred more time to spend with one another and more time to fall in love. They spent years enjoying one another and life.

My favorite Ted and Mildred story is how Ted always told Mildred how much he loved her. He made sure she knew. Even in his later days when Ted's mind began to slip and as his dementia grew, he constantly told his Mildred just how much he loved her. He just didn't realize how many times he'd tell her each day. He would say, "Momma, do you know how much I love you?" There were even times when he'd wake her up at night just to tell her that he loved her. She'd always say, "I'm the most blessed woman in the world to have a man who loves me this much."

Her son, Mike, suggested that she might put beans in her pocket for just one day, and every time he told her that he loved her, she could move a bean from one pocket to the other pocket. Then she'd know just how loved she was. She did it, she took his advise, and at the end of the day, she counted 87 beans.

Ted and Mildred have been gone for years. But their legacy of love lives on in their children, grandchildren and those that knew them. A life-long fulfilling marriage of love, family and faith. What an amazing gift from God. It's what I want...a "bean counting" marriage.

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Sunday, May 20, 2007
WORST CHURCH IDEA OF THE MONTH AWARD

"Dipping into alternative funding: Pastors Ray and Simone Bellevue say corporate sponsorship has done "nothing but good" for their church, formerly Tustin Assembly of God. His church has sold much of the "visual space" in their facility to advertisers, including the bathroom stalls to Burger King, the rim of the collection plates to Hewlett-Packard and the backs of pews to JollyTime popcorn. "We were facing real cutbacks for our youth programs, and these companies were more than happy to step in and bridge the gap, financially speaking."

Is this real? "Hmmm...I was about to let my jaw drop till I realized it was satire off Lark News! If you have a sense of humor you should check out their site - I love the pew and parking reservations link.

I can't tell you how much better I feel knowing this isn't real. Thank you, Lord.

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Saturday, May 19, 2007
STRANGE HEAVEN VIDEO
Wow. I really do think this could qualify is one of the single strangest, jaw-dropping, awkward laughter-inducing, Christian videos I have ever seen. The responses of the audience alone are well worth the admission.


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Friday, May 18, 2007
MANLY GARDENING
It's been a good week. Busy as always. Trips out of town to check on the sick, hospital board meetings, T-ball games and services at the prison were just a few of the activities this week.
  • GARDENING: Lea and I spent the week setting out flowers in the flower beds. It's something I've learned to like because that's what she likes to do. Please, don't revoke my man card. I still love "men" stuff, but if the most important person in my world likes to plant a flower garden, then I'm going to learn to like flower gardens too. I just like doing anything that requires spending time with her. I hope my marriage is as long and full of love as Ted & Mildred's that I'm going to tell you about tomorrow. Great story. You won't want to miss it.


  • SEXY: Speaking of spending time together. Not too long ago, I was helping Lea clean house. Neither of us like the job of dusting and I always come up with an excuse to get out of it. I'll do anything but don't make me dust. I finished all the vaccuuming and decided I'd dust one small room just to be nice. As Lea came through the room I wanted her to notice that I was actually dusting, so I asked if my dusting was looking good. She stopped and looked over at me and said, "You know, I don't think I've ever seen you looking sexier to me than you do right now with a dust rag in your hand." My chest swelled with pride, and I finished dusting the "entire house" in all my sexiness.


  • TEENAGERS: We have a party at our house tonight for a couple of the graduating senior boys at church. That means I'll be helping clean house today. We're expecting about 30 people. It'll be burgers and hot dogs on the grill. And probably no bed time till midnight. Sheesh ... teenagers make me tired.


  • GIANTS AREN'T BIG: I love what God shared with me this week through His word. He kind of kicked me in the gut and reminded me to trust Him. In 1 Samuel 17, the armies of the Living God were all cowering in their tents went Goliath challenged them. Then David shows up and does something amazing. Instead of comparing his size to Goliath's, he compares God to Goliath. Goliath looked like a tiny ant. That's the mistake the Israelite army made. They were comparing Goliath's size to theirs instead of God's. I want to be like David, so when Goliath comes in the form of cancer, sickness, depression, death or some other big monster, I'll say, "You come against me with sword and spear and javelin, but I come against you in the name of the LORD Almighty, the God of the armies of Israel, whom you have defied. This day the LORD will hand you over to me, and I'll strike you down and cut off your head..." David rocks!


  • PREACHING JESUS: I'm excited about Sunday. I'm preaching about Jesus. There's really no better topic. Preaching about Jesus is like preaching an action movie. There was nothing boring about Jesus' life and the sermon shouldn't be boring either. My hope always is that if you attend church on Sunday, it is one of the BEST hours of the week! I believe people should look more forward to church than they do Lost, 24, or American Idol. When the lesson is about Jesus, it's hard not to be excited. We just can't get too much of Jesus, and he must be the church's main focus. Last week I didn't get a sermon on the sermon page, but I'll try harder this week to get it done.


  • BLOGGING: One last thing. One of the best things I like about blogging is getting to meet so many new people. I love the emails I get in my inbox and the comments to the posts. We've really had some good discussion lately. Thanks for making blogging fun.

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Thursday, May 17, 2007
THINGS CHANGE, BUT GOD REMAINS THE SAME
Last week I sat in a brand new car. No, it wasn't mine. The new car smell was intoxicating. The gadgets were amazing. The navigation system was mind boggling.

As I sat behind the wheel, the new owner explained all the new and latest gadgets to me. I was in awe. It had safety features I had never heard of, and get this, would you believe it had 8, yes 8, airbags?

A story I read recently about how things change in your lifetime, along with the fancy seat belt and airbags got me to thinking about how things have changed in my life. I've lived on this earth for only 41 years, and I've already seen so much change. For example: when I was a child, there were no such term as "seat belt." We didn't need seat belts. My mother was the safety device in our car. If I wanted to stand in the front seat, lay in the back window or stick my head out the window like a dog - no problem. In the event of an accident, my mom would save me with her arm.

Whenever she'd hit the brake, her arm would simultaneously arc towards me like a powerful steal beam: Whap! Talk about tough love. "Why'd you do that?" I'd snort through my bleeding nose.

"I kept you from going through the windshield," she'd reply with a look of heroic satisfaction.

"Can I go through the windshield next time please?" I'd say, thinking it would probably hurt less than the long-arm-of-mom.

Now riding with grandma was a whole different ballgame. She had that fleshy "hanging down thing" under her arm. So when she'd hit the brakes and out popped her arm, instead of the bleeding nose, I'd be smothered by gelatinous flesh. Everything would go black, and air would temporarily be cut off. But at least it didn't hurt. Oh, I'd smell like Ben-gay for the next few days, but I could live with that.

My point of all of this is to say nothing stays the same; everything changes. Cars change, seat belts change, car seats change and life goes on. Change is everywhere. Children who were starting kindergarten yesterday are graduating from high school in two weeks. Kids going off to college yesterday are now settling into the routine of a family. And those we love are slowly passing on to another world through death. You can't count on anything to stay the same anymore. The only thing that doesn't change is God. His love and mercy remain the same. It's only an unchanging God that remains. He will never fail.


"The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases, His mercies never come to an end, they are new every morning..." Lamentations 3:22

What are some of the changes you've seen in your life?

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Wednesday, May 16, 2007
Are You A Church-Goer or a Christian

The church is full of "the guy on the left." What we need is more of "the guy on the right."

Which one are you?

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Tuesday, May 15, 2007
10 BOOKS THAT HAVE GREATLY AFFECTED MY LIFE
10. His Needs Her Needs - Dr. Willard Harley
Quite possibly the most used book in my library.



9. The Holiness of God - R.C. Sproul
Chapter 4, "The Trauma of Holiness" is an absolutely fantastic chapter.




8. Too Busy NOT To Pray - Bill Hybels
Here's an amazing book for your prayer life.




7. The Jesus I Never Knew - Philip Yancey
If you have never read this book ... shame on you!




6. The God of the Towel - Jim McGuiggan
This book taught me about serving like Jesus.





5. Simply Christian - N.T. Wright
Wow, can this guy make you think. Probably should be higher on my list.


4. No Wonder They Call Him the Savior - Max Lucado
The first Lucado book I ever read. I was young and seeking to know my Savior. This book opened my eyes to a Jesus I'd never known growing up.



3. Irresistible Revolution - Shane Claiborne
No book has challenged my faith more in how I see the church and what real church is all about.



2. Finish Strong - Steve Farrar
Definitely the #2 book on my list. By far this book has influenced me as much as any I've read other than the Bible. I've literally read this book a dozen times. Any Steve Farrar book is great gift for a husband or dad, but this one is a must read for all men.



1. The Bible
Still the best selling book in the world and the only book I never get tired of reading. This one is a must read!




So here are 10 books that have greatly affected my life in a positive way. What are some that make your top 10 list?

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Monday, May 14, 2007
EMOTIONAL AFFAIRS
Nine out of ten affairs begin with an emotional attraction. It usually happens when a need that a spouse is not meeting begins to be met by another person of the opposite sex.

I once read somewhere that it may be far easier to have an emotional affair than you may realize. When you find yourself connecting with another person of the opposite sex as a substitute, you've started traveling a road that too often ends in adultery and divorce.

When these things are taking place, with someone of the opposite sex, it should be a huge warning ...

So, how do you keep this from happening?

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Friday, May 11, 2007
A WEEK AROUND THE MORGAN HOUSE

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LIFE'S SHORT. GET A DIVORCE
What's Wrong with this Picture?

You've probably read the story behind the billboard (pictured above) in Chicago that says, "Life is Short. Get a divorce." It wasn't so much about the partially clothed man and woman on the law firm's ad. It was the phrase "Life is short. Get a divorce," that drew scores of complaints from neighbors and others. Even other lawyers were saying the ads were "classless." After numerous complaints, the billboard was taken down this week.

"It's offensive because the message is sex, and if you don't have what you want, you dump it," said one woman.

"It trivializes divorce and I think it's absolutely disgusting," Rick Tivers, a clinical social worker at the Center for Divorce Recovery in Chicago, told ABC News.

Click Here To Watch the short video news report or Click Here to Read the Story

So, what kills me is the underlying message of the billboard?

  • Why stay with the same old spouse of yours with hotties like THIS is the world?
  • No reason to work at your marriage, instead just shuck it.
  • Look what you're missing by being married.
  • Divorce has never been so easy or so good.
  • Give up on your spouse for a buff bod like one of these.
  • If it ain't working at home, don't try to fix it, just get a divorce and find someone else?

What I would like to see the sign say...

  • "Your marriage can look this good with a little work."
  • "Don't be fooled, no woman like this wants an old fart like you!"
  • "You may not look this good, but you can have a great marriage and sex-life when you do it God's way."

What's your opinion of the billboard?

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Thursday, May 10, 2007
CHURCH JARGON ALL NEW CHRISTIANS AND SEEKERS NEED TO KNOW
Those who grew up going to church know all the special "church lingo." But can you imagine what it'd be like for a seeker or new Christian to attend a worship service and hear a lot of terms and phrases they don't understand? Unless someone is there to explain things, it's got to be really confusing. Maybe if we gave them a program explaining these terms they'd feel more at home (for those a little slow this is all tongue and cheek):

THE PULPIT MINISTER: Sometimes called other things like the Preacher, Pastor, Reverend or "Hey you!" A minister charged with ensuring the spiritual growth of a congregation or worship group. Often confused for a "Sunday Only" employee. Many ministers enjoy additional