Tuesday, May 06, 2008
WHAT I LEARNED FROM CANCER
Today I celebrate life. It is my anniversary. Not my wedding anniversary, but my cancer anniversary.

Five years ago today, my jaw dropped as I sat in a doctor's office and heard the doctor say, "You have cancer." So much of that day is still such a blur in my memory. The only things I remember about that day were hearing the words, "It's cancer," and calling my wife to tell her what I had just found out. It was the very last thing I expected the doctor to say. And it totally changed my life.

I had my first surgery the very next day. Wanting to avoid chemotherapy, I opted to go with a second major surgery about three weeks after the first surgery. The second surgery required a one-week stay in the hospital. It was not fun.

I'm reminded of what cancer has taught me: The only
things that really matter in life are my faith, my family & my friends.
Lance Armstrong has a commercial airing in which he stares into the camera and says, "Remember me cancer? You made me who I am today?" That quote really hits home with me. As I celebrate life today on my 5 year anniversary date, here are a few lessons I've learned from cancer...

  • I learned that my illness brought out so many friends I didn't even know I had. I had over 250 cards sent to me (I still keep them in an old shoe box). Many cards and prayers came from people and churches I didn't even know. I was over whelmed with love and support.


  • I learned that there are no "do-overs" in life, so you should make the most of every day.


  • I learned all over again that my wife is an amazing woman, as she supported me through tough times.


  • I learned that it's impossible to have any sort of self-dignity in a hospital gown.


  • I learned that real love, not the stuff you see in the movies or on soap operas, is my wife telling me I look "great" to her, even when I was pale, skinny, sick, throwing up and too weak to do a thing.


  • I learned that it was okay to be scared, and that it was okay to ask God, "Why?"


  • I learned that in 2003 God answered prayers and that prayer can change anything!


  • "Remember me, cancer? My friends kicked your butt with prayer."

Every morning when I rise I can see the two scars that remind me that I have had cancer. But today on May 6th, I celebrate my life being cancer free. Having cancer has changed me in ways I could not imagine or predict. And, I'm reminded again today of the most important lesson I've learned from cancer: "The things that really matter in life are simple ... my faith, my family & my friends."

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Friday, December 07, 2007
THINGS I'VE LEARNED ABOUT LIFE
My mom has always preached to me about praying for wisdom. When I left home for the first time, every letter she sent me closed with this line, "And, don't forget to pray for wisdom - Love Mom." She's a wise woman and she knew that true wisdom never stops learning. As I have aged, I've learned wisdom does come from God (James 1:5), and it also come from life. Experience is a great teacher and true wisdom arises from vulnerability. Here are a few things I learned about life after looking back...

What are some things you've learned as you've experienced life?

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Saturday, May 05, 2007
CANCER CHANGED MY LIFE
Lance Armstrong has a commercial airing in which he stares into the camera and says, "Remember me cancer? You made me who I am today?" That quote really hits home with me.

On May 6th of 2003, I sat in Dr. Pate's office and he looked at me and said, "You have cancer. You're young and healthy, you should be able to beat this thing." So much of t
hat day is still such a blur in my memory. The only things remember about that day were hearing the words, "It's cancer." And calling my wife to tell her.

It was SO unexpected. It was the last thing I expected the doctor to say. And it changed my life.

I had my first surgery later that week. Wanting to avoid chemotherapy, I instead opted to go with a 2nd major surgery two weeks after the first surgery. The second surgery required a one-week stay in the hospital.

As my 4 year anniversary date is here I thought about some lessons I've learned from cancer.

So tomorrow when I celebrate my 4-year anniversary I'll remember, cancer does change you in ways you cannot imagine or predict. It reminds me of what is really important in life: God, family & friends.

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