Today I celebrate life. It is my anniversary. Not my wedding anniversary, but my cancer anniversary.Five years ago today, my jaw dropped as I sat in a doctor's office and heard the doctor say, "You have cancer." So much of that day is still such a blur in my memory. The only things I remember about that day were hearing the words, "It's cancer," and calling my wife to tell her what I had just found out. It was the very last thing I expected the doctor to say. And it totally changed my life.
I had my first surgery the very next day. Wanting to avoid chemotherapy, I opted to go with a second major surgery about three weeks after the first surgery. The second surgery required a one-week stay in the hospital. It was not fun.
I'm reminded of what cancer has taught me: The only
things that really matter in life are my faith, my family & my friends.
- I learned that my illness brought out so many friends I didn't even know I had. I had over 250 cards sent to me (I still keep them in an old shoe box). Many cards and prayers came from people and churches I didn't even know. I was over whelmed with love and support.
- I learned that there are no "do-overs" in life, so you should make the most of every day.
- I learned all over again that my wife is an amazing woman, as she supported me through tough times.
- I learned that it's impossible to have any sort of self-dignity in a hospital gown.
- I learned that real love, not the stuff you see in the movies or on soap operas, is my wife telling me I look "great" to her, even when I was pale, skinny, sick, throwing up and too weak to do a thing.
- I learned that it was okay to be scared, and that it was okay to ask God, "Why?"
- I learned that in 2003 God answered prayers and that prayer can change anything!
- "Remember me, cancer? My friends kicked your butt with prayer."
Every morning when I rise I can see the two scars that remind me that I have had cancer. But today on May 6th, I celebrate my life being cancer free. Having cancer has changed me in ways I could not imagine or predict. And, I'm reminded again today of the most important lesson I've learned from cancer: "The things that really matter in life are simple ... my faith, my family & my friends."
Labels: Cancer, Morgan Family
- I learned that when you wave at people, they'll wave back. (Age 6)
- I learned that my Mom and Dad are the smartest people in the world. (Age 7)
- I learned you can't lie about shooting your brother with a slingshot and get away with it. (Age 9)
- I learned when you shoot a bb-gun in the house, mom will always find out. (Age 11)
- I learned that just when I got my room the way I like it, my Mom made me clean it up. (Age 12)
- I learned that my Mom and Dad weren't as smart as I thought they were. (Age 14)
- I learned that my Mom and Dad don't have a clue about life. (Age 16)
- I learned that I was secretly glad that my parents were hard on me. (Age 17)
- I learned that my Mom and Dad need me if they are to actually survive in this world. (Age 18)
- I learned that my Mom and Dad may be smarter than I've given them credit for these last few years. (Age 20)
- I learned that once again my Mom and Dad are the smartest people in the world. (Age 21)
- I learned that a sweet little brown haired, brown eyed girl named Lea can rock my world. (Age 22)
- I learned that having kids is cool and a lot of work. (Age 24)
- I learned that people are interested in learning about a God when I tell them how much He loves them. (Age 25)
- I learned that wherever I go, the world's worst drivers have followed me there. (Age 26)
- I learned that my dad is incredibly wise and should be sought for advice in every big decision that comes. (Age 27)
- I learned that playing catch in the backyard with my sons is one of life's greatest pleasures. (Age 29)
- I learned that you can tell a lot about a man's true character by the way he handles these three things: tangled Christmas lights, a bad call at his kid's athletic event and how he talks about his wife when she's not around. (Age 33)
- I learned that making a living and making a life are two different things. (Age 35)
- I learned that sometimes life gives you a second chance when cancer comes. (Age 37)
- I learned the value of sharing a touch and that everyday you should hold some one's hand, share a hug or a friendly pat on the back. (Age 39)
- I've learned that a sweet little brown haired, brown eyed girl named Lea still rocks my world. (Age 40)
- I've learned that I still have a lot to learn. (Age 41)
What are some things you've learned as you've experienced life?
Labels: Cancer, Lea, Morgan Family
Lance Armstrong has a commercial airing in which he stares into the camera and says, "Remember me cancer? You made me who I am today?" That quote really hits home with me.On May 6th of 2003, I sat in Dr. Pate's office and he looked at me and said, "You have cancer. You're young and healthy, you should be able to beat this thing." So much of that day is still such a blur in my memory. The only things remember about that day were hearing the words, "It's cancer." And calling my wife to tell her.
It was SO unexpected. It was the last thing I expected the doctor to say. And it changed my life.
I had my first surgery later that week. Wanting to avoid chemotherapy, I instead opted to go with a 2nd major surgery two weeks after the first surgery. The second surgery required a one-week stay in the hospital.
As my 4 year anniversary date is here I thought about some lessons I've learned from cancer.
- I learned that my illness brought out so many friends I didn't even know I had. I had over 250 cards sent to me (I still keep them in an old shoe box). Many from people and churches I didn't even know. I was over whelmed with love and support.
- I learned that there are no "do-overs" in life, so you should make the most of every day.
- I learned all over again that my wife is an amazing woman, as she supported me through tough times.
- I learned that it's impossible to have any sort of self-dignity in a hospital gown.
- I learned that real love, not the stuff you see in the movies or on soap operas, is my wife telling me I look "great" to her, even when I was pale, skinny, sick, throwing up and too weak to do a thing.
- I learned that it was okay to be scared. And, that it was okay to ask God, "Why?"
- I learned that in 2003 God answered prayers and that prayer can change anything!
- "Remember me, cancer? My friends kicked your butt with prayer."
So tomorrow when I celebrate my 4-year anniversary I'll remember, cancer does change you in ways you cannot imagine or predict. It reminds me of what is really important in life: God, family & friends.
Labels: Cancer, Morgan Family

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